Having lunch one-on-one with someone of the opposite sex.
Pick one of three to move on automatically. You can go back with "Prev" to change an answer. Your progress is saved in this browser as you go.
Download the original blank "Is This Cheating?" sheet | Japanese, Simplified Chinese, Traditional Chinese, English
Looking for the pink "Is This Cheating?" blank judgment sheet the VTubers used on stream? The Japanese original plus Simplified Chinese, Traditional Chinese, and English editions are here — 3 images each, 12 JPEGs in total, packed into one ZIP, free to download. If you'd rather not save images and tick boxes by hand, just fill in the 40 questions with the online sheet at the top of this page and generate your result image.
The download is a ZIP archive of about 10.6MB containing the 3 Japanese originals, 3 Simplified Chinese, 3 Traditional Chinese, and 3 English sheets, plus a credits note. All four languages ship in the same file.
The sheet is meant for discovering how differently you and your partner or friends draw your relationship boundaries — comparing answers is half the fun. It is not a diagnostic tool for detecting actual infidelity.
All 40 questions of the "Is This Cheating?" judgment sheet
All 40 questions are listed here in the streamers' original order — the same set you saw on stream, in the official English wording. To answer them yourself, use the online sheet at the top of this page: one of three choices per question. There are no right or wrong answers, and no cheating score is calculated.
- Having lunch one-on-one with someone of the opposite sex.Distance with the opposite sex
- Having a meal alone with a best friend of the opposite sex you've known since school.Distance with the opposite sex
- Going for drinks one-on-one with a coworker of the opposite sex after work.Distance with the opposite sex
- Hanging out one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex your partner knows.Distance with the opposite sex
- Going to the movies one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex.Distance with the opposite sex
- Giving a birthday present to a friend of the opposite sex.Distance with the opposite sex
- Receiving a birthday present from a friend of the opposite sex.Distance with the opposite sex
- Messaging a friend of the opposite sex on LINE every day.Distance with the opposite sex
- Having a late-night call with someone of the opposite sex you've been close to for a long time.Distance with the opposite sex
- Asking someone of the opposite sex for relationship advice.Distance with the opposite sex
- Simply feeling happy when someone of the opposite sex calls you "cute" or "good-looking."Distance with the opposite sex
- Telling someone of the opposite sex, "You look cute today."Distance with the opposite sex
- Noticing and complimenting changes in the hairstyle or clothing of someone of the opposite sex.Distance with the opposite sex
- Having matching items with a friend of the opposite sex.Close opposite-sex friends
- Posting a photo of just you and a friend of the opposite sex on social media.Close opposite-sex friends
- Keeping a photo of yourself with someone of the opposite sex on your phone.Close opposite-sex friends
- Calling each other by nicknames only you and a friend of the opposite sex understand.Close opposite-sex friends
- Getting excited talking about memories only you and a friend of the opposite sex share.Close opposite-sex friends
- Having someone of the opposite sex call you their "closest opposite-sex friend."Close opposite-sex friends
- Laughing it off when someone of the opposite sex jokes, "Dating you would be fun."Close opposite-sex friends
- Meeting a friend of the opposite sex one-on-one to hear them out when they're feeling down.Close opposite-sex friends
- Driving someone of the opposite sex home after they miss the last train.Close opposite-sex friends
- Taking care of a drunk friend of the opposite sex.Close opposite-sex friends
- Comforting a friend of the opposite sex who's crying.Close opposite-sex friends
- Lending your jacket to someone of the opposite sex who looks cold.Close opposite-sex friends
- Helping a friend of the opposite sex move, together with one other person.Close opposite-sex friends
- Going to meet a friend of the opposite sex after they ask, "Can we meet up now?"Close opposite-sex friends
- Going shopping one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex and having them pick out clothes for you.One-on-one outings
- Going to karaoke one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex.One-on-one outings
- Going to a theme park one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex.One-on-one outings
- Still following your ex on social media.Your ex
- Liking your ex's posts on social media.Your ex
- Replying when your ex sends you a "Happy New Year" message.Your ex
- Replying "Thank you!" to a birthday message from your ex on LINE.Your ex
- Continuing to use a wallet your ex gave you as usual.Your ex
- Not deleting photos of yourself with your ex.Your ex
- Going with your current partner to a place where you made memories with your ex.Your ex
- Talking casually with your ex at a mutual friend's wedding.Your ex
- Feeling glad when you hear your ex is in a new relationship.Your ex
- Your ex texts "Long time no see! How are you?" and you exchange a few messages to catch up.Your ex
Last QuestionWould your answers change if you were the one doing these things?Yes・No
What is the "Is This Cheating?" judgment sheet?
The "Is This Cheating?" judgment sheet — in Japanese, "これって浮気？判定シート" — is a 40-question relationship-boundaries sheet published by NIJISANJI VTuber Sukoya Kana that then spread among streamers. You don't score a relationship with it. For each of 40 behaviors, you check "Cheating", "Not Cheating, But I Don't Like It", or "Totally Fine", and end up with a complete sheet that shows where you personally draw the line.
On this site you can answer all 40 questions one by one in your browser. No saving an image and marking it by hand, no image-editing app. Works on mobile and desktop, completely free, no registration.
How to use the sheet | answer right in your browser
No need to save an image and write on it. The judgment sheet at the top of this page covers all 40 questions.
For each question, choose one of three options: "Cheating", "Not Cheating, But I Don't Like It", or "Totally Fine". After each answer the sheet moves on automatically, and you can go back with "Prev" to change any answer.
Leave midway and pick up later
Your answers are saved automatically in your device's browser. If you close the page halfway through, just come back on the same device and browser to continue where you left off.
Your answers are never uploaded to a server. To start over from scratch, use "Clear All Answers" to delete everything saved.
Save and share your result as one PNG image
When all 40 questions are filled in, the site automatically generates a complete vertical PNG showing every question with your check mark, plus a tally of how many times you picked each option. Tap "Save Image" to download it to your phone or computer, then share it on X, Instagram, Reddit, or any other platform. The result image is not a psychological score report and does not judge whether anyone actually cheated.
With "Share on X" you can post the tally of your answers together with a link to this site. To post the result image too, just attach the saved PNG. On supported devices, "Share Result Image" sends the image file directly through your device's share sheet.
About the results
The result exists to put your own values and boundaries into words, and to enjoy comparing them. It is not meant to call out a specific person or judge a relationship, and it is not a medical or psychological diagnosis, nor a tool for verifying someone's behavior.
Feel free to share your result, but avoid uploading other people's photos, real names, or other personal information. Have fun with it, and stay safe.
Frequently asked questions
Where can I fill in the "Is This Cheating?" sheet I saw in a VTuber stream?
Right here — the sheet at the top of this page. The first question is already on screen, and you can start without installing an app or saving any images.
Can I answer on my phone without writing on the image?
Yes. The full 40 questions work in any mobile or desktop browser. Each question is a pick-one-of-three, the sheet advances automatically, and you can go back and change earlier answers.
Is it free? Do I need an account?
All 40 questions are free to answer, with no registration or login. Your answers are saved automatically in the browser you are using.
Can I save the completed sheet as an image?
Yes. Once you finish all 40 questions, you can save a PNG that summarizes your answer to every question. Share the image on X (Twitter) or send it to friends and compare.
Is this the original 40-question sheet from Sukoya Kana's stream, in English?
Yes. UHanTei built this English online version from the "これって浮気？判定シート" sheet Sukoya Kana published, keeping the content and order of the original 40 questions. The English wording follows the official English edition of the sheet. This site is independently built and unofficial — it is not run by Sukoya Kana or NIJISANJI. The original X post and stream links are on our Origin & Sources page.
Can I compare answers with friends?
Yes. Everyone answers on the same page, then you swap result images and compare. You can also invite friends with "Invite via LINE" or "Copy Invite Link" — the invite link doesn't include your answers.
Can I download the original pink sheet used in streams as blank images?
Yes. The "blank sheet download" section of this page offers the Japanese original plus Simplified Chinese, Traditional Chinese, and English editions — 12 JPEGs in one ZIP, free to grab. If you'd rather answer online, there's no need to download or edit any images: just answer question by question at the top of this page.
Does the sheet calculate a score, a cheating rate, or whether my partner actually cheated?
No. The original "Is This Cheating?" sheet is a 40-question, pick-one-of-three record of your personal relationship boundaries. It is not a psychological test, and there is no passing score or cheating rate. UHanTei only records which option you picked for each question, tallies the counts, and generates a PNG you can save and share. It never judges whether a real person has been unfaithful.
Can I compare my answers with VTubers or streamers?
Yes. On our VTuber Answer Comparison page, you can compare the currently listed streamers' choices question by question, compare two streamers side by side, or find which streamer has answers most similar to yours.
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Where the "Is This Cheating?" sheet comes from
The "Is This Cheating?" judgment sheet was first published by Sukoya Kana under its original Japanese name "これって浮気？判定シート", with the sheet designed by Aria (@air_trpg). For the original release date, the first stream where it was filled in, and how it spread through the VTuber community, read our Origin & Sources page. This website is an independently built, unofficial online version in English. UHanTei is not affiliated with the creators of the original project or any organization they belong to.